Introduction

The prospect of going to war affects all Americans, but members of the military, the reserves, and their families are likely to feel the greatest, most immediate impact. The disruption to family life caused when a loved one is deployed overseas or called to active duty is difficult under any circumstances. However, memories from 9-11 and concern over the possibility of further terrorist attacks here at home may compound a family's feelings of anxiety. Adults and children may experience strong emotional reactions: fear, uncertainty, a sense of vulnerability, loss of control, isolation, anxiety, anger and sadness. Children of all ages will need extra attention and support to help them cope with their feelings.

Parents, teachers and other caregivers must reassure youngsters and help them understand clearly what is going on, what to expect in the days to come, and how to manage their feelings. Here are a few suggestions on how to help children cope.

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